Chocolate and a night in? Sweet, but let’s be real—Costa Mesa has way too much going on to stay home. This Valentine’s (or Galentine’s) Day, why not upgrade your plans with something that will make your heart flutter.
We’ve rounded up 14 must-try date ideas in Costa Mesa that’ll make your day unforgettable. Whether you’re out with your partner or your ride-or-dies, these picks guarantee all the fun, all the feels, and zero regrets.
1. Take a Paint Class at Inspired Art Wine

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Art and wine is a timeless combo and Inspired Art Wine is taking it up a notch. They offer painting classes (with wine), as well as wine-focused sessions where you can learn about tasting profiles and create custom labels. For Valentine’s Day, they’re hosting a painting class featuring the scene “London Walk,” perfect for the romantic occasion! Seats are limited, so book yours before they’re gone.
2. Create a Custom Charm Necklace at Balboa Gold

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For a keepsake that stands out, head to Balboa Gold inside SOCO & the OC Mix where you and your besties can design your own custom charm necklace or bracelet. Choose from a selection of meaningful charms, initials, and gemstones to match your personal style. Hanging with your boo? Book a permanent jewelry appointment to make it official with a forever bracelet!
3. Climb Together & Conquer Together at Rockcreation

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Whether you’re a newbie or a pro climber, Rockreation is the perfect spot to reach new heights together—literally. Book a class tailored to your goals (fitness, technique, speed, etc.) or set up a private session for your Galentine’s crew. Because nothing says friendship like cheering each other on…or racing to the top for ultimate bragging rights!
4. Stay Classy with Dinner and a Show

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Is there anything more iconic than dinner and a show? Kick-off Valentine’s Day with a decadent 4-course prix-fixe meal at Silver Trumpet—think perfectly seasoned steaks and seafood, hand-crafted desserts, and more deliciousness. Then, take a romantic stroll to Segerstrom Center for the Arts for Pacific Symphony’s Pops show featuring jazz-tinted music.
5. Make Something Special at Color Me Mine

Color Me Mine is ready to paint the town red this Valentine’s Day! On February 14th, grab your partner and BYO champagne, wine, or whatever gets your creativity flowing. They’re offering an intimate evening of ceramic painting, where your masterpieces are yours to keep. Spaces are limited, so don’t miss out—reserve your spot before it’s too late!
6. Enjoy a Special Dinner in Costa Mesa

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Knife Pleat: Treat your special someone to a Michelin-starred experience at Knife Pleat with a luxurious French six-course tasting menu, available on Valentine’s Day and February 15.
Descanso: Celebrate love effortlessly with a special prix fixe menu for two, featuring Mexican street-inspired cuisine, available from February 13 through 16.
Sevilla: Enjoy a vibrant atmosphere of live Latin music and Spanish cuisine at Sevilla. Their special four-course menu features dishes like warm goat cheese dip, lobster paella valenciana, and orange tart with raspberry meringue for dessert.
The Country Club: Indulge in a romantic four-course meal with live jazz, an elegant dining ambiance, and a complimentary glass of champagne, plus options for wine pairings and themed craft cocktails.
7. Treat Yourselves at South Coast Plaza

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This Valentine’s Day, shopping at South Coast Plaza is more than just a retail therapy session—it’s a love affair. With luxury brands, boutiques, and delicious eateries, you’ll find the perfect gift (or treat yourself—no judgment here). Don’t forget to grab a complimentary rose and stop by Laderach for artisanal chocolates that’ll make your heart—and taste buds—melt.
8. Be Inspired at OCMA

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The Orange County Museum of Art is the perfect unexpected spot for a memorable date night. Stroll hand in hand through the galleries, exploring California and international masterpieces, and don’t miss the immersive Martin Creed exhibit, featuring giant yellow balloons that make for a fun photo op. Plus, admission is free!
9. Learn Some Moves at Café Sevilla

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This Valentine’s Day, spice things up with a Salsa & Bachata dance class at Café Sevilla! No reservations required—just bring your dance partner and some comfy shoes for a night of fun. Start with salsa, then move on to bachata, and put your new skills to the test while dancing into the early morning, until 1:30 am. It’s the perfect way to turn your date night into an unforgettable dance party!
10. Axe Your Ex at Slashers Axe Throwing & Ales

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Break free from Valentine’s clichés and axe your ex this February 14th at Slashers Axe Throwing & Ales! You read that right. Bring a printed or digital picture of your ex and let out your frustrations by throwing some axes. Make sure to enjoy their wide selection of craft beers while you are there.
11. Take a Wheel Throwing Class at ARTime Barro

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For a couple that likes a hands-on approach, we recommend taking a wheel-throwing class at ARTime Barro. Learn core techniques for using a pottery wheel alongside your favorite people with lessons for all levels given by lifelong ceramic experts.
12. Unwind at Facial Lounge

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The first few months of the year can be a stressful time, so unwinding on Valentine’s Day is as valid as any date. We recommend booking organic vegan facials at Facial Lounge in Costa Mesa, a spa and lounge where even a few hours can feel like days of relaxation.
13. Spread the Love at The CAMP

Head to The CAMP for a day filled with love, creativity, and fun! Enjoy live tunes by Violette Rain and dive into free activities like floral arranging, custom heart wreath making, and a fun photo op backdrop. Sip on mocktails by Hi Lo Liquor, grab a bag of wildflower seeds to take home, and more!
14. End the Night Right with an Overnight Stay

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Valentine’s Day falls on a Friday this year— perfect for turning it into a three-day weekend celebration! The Westin South Coast Plaza is offering a romantic getaway designed for relaxation and indulgence.
Package Includes:
- Overnight accommodations
- Complimentary Breakfast for two (2) at The Great Room
- Complimentary self-parking for one (1) vehicle
- Chocolate Covered Strawberries
- One (1) bottle of Champagne or Sparkling Cider
Whether you’re celebrating with your partner or your best friends, a luxurious overnight stay at a Costa Mesa Hotel is the best way to cap off an unforgettable night. Enjoy comfort, privacy, and a little extra love this weekend.